Your wedding checklist is a can’t miss step in planning your big day
This wedding checklist is going to be your best friend over the next year and change. It will offer great advice when you need it, ideas when you’re lost, it’ll listen when you want to vent (and won’t talk back) but most of all it will calm any frantic nerves that creep in as your big day approaches. Sounds pretty sweet ehh?! I’ve pieced this list together from various sources both online and off – through my own experience as a groom and a wedding photographer as well some wedding vendor friends.
Like my wise grandmother always told me, it’s the gettin’ goin’ that gets ya. So we’re going to time-chunk this wedding planning checklist together! I’ve broken down key areas to consider along your planning journey and tossed them into their own “when-should-I” bucket so you’re not overwhelmed by everything all at once. Let’s time-chunk it out.
Quick tip before we dive in… along the way be sure to consult with your vendors. When you hire great wedding vendors they become an invaluable resource of knowledge. Great vendors love sharing their wisdom!
12 MONTHS – 24 MONTHS
These are in no specific order because everyone will place a different value on the following points. These are however, crucial first-steps in getting the ball rolling.
- Select your date: Start with your desired season Summer, Fall, Winter? Or perhaps a special date in your history as a couple.
- Research your wedding venues: Venues book up fast, especially the popular ones. If you’re flexible with Friday or Sunday wedding dates then you’ll have more options. Saturday dates naturally book well in advance. This past year I actually had 2 Thursday weddings simply due to scheduling.
- Create a wedding Pinterest board: Dive into the deep end of Pinterest, there are so many ideas you’ve never heard of just waiting to inspire you!
- Create your budget: Nobody enjoys this one, nobody. However it’s so important to plan ahead. Figure out what is most important to you about your day and how it may impact your budget ie. Balancing a large guest list with cost per plate? How important are your photos?
- Select your wedding party
- Create your guest list and get the word out to save your date on their calendars
- Research key wedding vendors: This will vary with each couple but it’s important to understand that like popular venues, great vendors book very early in the process. For example, my average booking lead time is 14-18 months.
- Book your venue
- Book your wedding photographer
- Create a wedding website: This will be a great way to share your story and a valuable resource for your guests.
10 MONTHS – 12 MONTHS
This is the time to lock down your favourite wedding vendors. I’ll say it again because this point can’t be overlooked – most of the best wedding vendors will book early. Waiting any longer than this time frame may mean your favourite vendors will already be booked up. Of course, everyone will have their priorities in terms of vendors so again these are in no particular order.
- Book Planner
- Book Caterer
- Book DJ/Band
- Book Officiant
- Book Hair and Makeup
- Book Florist
- Book Cake, Pie, Cupcake
- Research honeymoon options
- Double check passport expiry dates for out-of-country honeymoon plans
- Begin the search for The Dress
- Do your engagement photo session: Doing your engagement session early allows the planning process to leap forward in the feels department. It also allows you to get to work with your photographer well in advance of the wedding and get great photos that you can use for Save the Date cards, invitations, your website as well as displaying at the wedding itself.
- Look into room hotel room availability for guests
8 MONTHS – 9 MONTHS
The fine-tuning begins at this stage, less decisions More doing.
- Create your wedding day timeline: Work with your planner and/or photographer. They can provide you with valuable advice in this area.
- Create wedding registry
- Lock down your hotel block of rooms for out of town guests + your own suite for the wedding night
- Finalize guest list + send out Save the Dates or invitations
- Select the fella’s suits
- Order bridesmaids dresses
- Book honeymoon
6 MONTHS – 7 MONTHS
We’re at the half-way point! Everything starts taking shape as you get together with vendors to get everyone on board with your vision.
- Schedule hair and makeup trial
- Schedule menu tasting with caterer
- Schedule dress fitting
- Narrow down your decor: Make decisions on things like centerpieces, ceremony + reception decor items
- Order wedding favours
- Send out invitations
This is the shit’s gettin’ real part…
- Create your seating chart as well as table numbers
- Finalize your menu selections (don’t forget your vendors)
- Start working on your speeches
- Get your marriage license
- Purchase wedding bands
- Select your music (ceremony, reception) with your DJ/Band
- Book transportation
- Book rehearsal dinner
Now let’s fine tune the details.
- Finish any name changing paperwork
- Finalize ceremony details and your vows
- Create table menus
- Create wedding program
- Create weather backup plan with your planner/photographer
- Purchase wedding party and parent gifts
- Purchase accessories: Things like guest book, cake servers and toasting flutes
- Arrange brunch for the day after the wedding
Eeek! Just one month to go however after all your careful planning up to this point, it’s just a matter of confirming everything.
- Final dress fitting: Bring maid of honour to learn how to bustle your dress.
- Finalize your reception seating + VIP seating for your ceremony
- Organize your RSVPs
- Confirm and send wedding day timeline to each vendor
- Follow up with any guests who have not RSVP’d
- Confirm rehearsal dinner numbers
- Confirm with bridesmaids that they have their dresses ready
- Create a morning-of itinerary with times each vendor is to arrive, duties for those family/friends helping out.
- Create a Go Bag: Get together the little things you may need ie. needle/thread/scissors, straw for drinking and not messing up your lipstick, blotting papers etc. Your Maid of Honour will be on-call duty with the bag of necessities.
Turn that fine-tuning dial a little more to the right…
- Provide caterer with final numbers
- Provide playlist to DJ/Band
- Delegate wedding day duties
- Get haircut and colour
- Practice your vows
- Leaving for your honeymoon right after your wedding? Begin packing now. Get travel items purchased and ready.
- Create your family photo list for your photographer: This is typically your parents, grandparents and siblings formal photos taken following the ceremony.
- Determine wedding party positions for the ceremony and the order of the party in the processional
- Schedule a final timeline call with your photographer: Nailing key moments on the wedding day is the whole point for your photographer, so having the timeline of events nailed down will help your photographer anticipate and be ready for those moments.
Start checking the final To Dos off each list.
- Pick up the fella’s suits
- Confirm any last minute changes with your vendors
- Prepare any day-of payment envelopes for vendors
- Arrange for snacks/lunch in your groom and bridal suites while you get ready
- Provide vendors with your contact phone numbers in case of emergency
- Confirm wedding day duties with wedding party and any additional helpers
Just one day to go before showtime, the culmination of this entire checklist! This is your green light to let go of everything and enjoy the anticipation of the day to come.
- Spa time with your crew – YOU get a mani/pedi and YOU get a mani/pedi…
- Practice your 1st kiss: Sound weird? Make your 1st kiss as husband and wife a smooth experience in front of all those guests. Lots of practice, you’re welcome fellas.
- Wedding rehearsal
- Rehearsal dinner
- Consider the following day before getting carried away with your bar tab
- Get to bed at responsible time
YOUR WEDDING DAY
It’s here! You’ve planned everything and you have amazing vendors doing what they do best… now is the time to let go and let the day unfold before your eyes, not your clipboard.
- Get a great start to the day with a healthy breakfast
- Water, hydrate!
- Give maid of honour and best man the wedding bands to hold before the ceremony
- Introduce venue coordinator to your maid of honour and best man: let them be your contact for reception questions or problems.
- Get married!